novelno Chapter 193
Chapter 193
As a teacher, wouldn’t it be better for parents to control their children?
Arriving at Bao Facai’s home, Li Siyuan saw how luxurious their home was. There were a lot of luxurious furniture, including many precious carvings.
Especially when I was driving back to pick up Li Siyuan, I saw a BMW 740LI.
It can be seen that her family is relatively wealthy.
But for the sake of their privacy, Li Siyuan did not let the cameraman follow him.
All netizens expressed great regret. They thought they could learn a little by following Li Siyuan in to see how Li Siyuan provides psychological counseling to others.
But considering that they are a single-parent family after all, they naturally have to protect each other and not give others opportunities to take advantage of them.
Otherwise, if others know about their home situation and come directly to harass them, it will be unsafe for them.
Netizens also gave up watching Li Siyuan’s psychology class.
In Bao Facai’s house.
“Teacher Li, this is the watermelon juice I squeezed just before I went out.” Bao Facai placed a glass of watermelon juice in front of Li Siyuan.
After Li Siyuan thanked them, he took a look at their home.
He found a huge cabinet, and in this cabinet were many awards.
“Oh, you have so many trophies and medals at home!”
Li Siyuan walked over with interest and took a good look at the display window.
“Yes, these are my and my son’s awards. I have put all the awards here.”
Seeing Li Siyuan go to the window, Bao Facai said proudly.
These awards are the honor of their family.
“Not bad.”
Li Siyuan said, glancing at these awards.
But I found that there is a problem with many of the trophies, medals, certificates and so on.
That is, all the awards Bao Facai received were from many years ago. In the past few years, she has not had any awards of her own.
Many years ago, there were outstanding employees, Golden Dove Awards, and all-round players in the company.
But many years later, all her awards stopped.
Then the number of championship certificates and so on began to increase.
Li Siyuan frowned slightly, and then asked casually.
“Champion Mom, which company do you work for?”
Bao Facai’s expression changed a little, and her pride just now also dimmed a little.
“I, I am in a state of resignation now. I have resigned from the company.”
Li Siyuan followed this topic, and then they had a good communication.
He was like an intimate elder brother who taught Bao Fa and taught him every step of the way.
Soon he found out that Bao Facai had a very happy marriage, a very good husband, and a very good job.
Because Bao is very capable of collecting hair, and her appearance is pretty good.
Such women can easily win the favor of outstanding men.
But just a few years ago, her husband actually cheated on her when she was pregnant.
Even if he cheated, he still cheated on a woman who was inferior to her in every aspect.
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This has always puzzled Bao Facai.
For so many years, I have worked outside, taken care of the family and done housework at home, and handled all the affairs of my parents-in-law very harmoniously.
He is as busy as a dog every day. Everyone envies his husband for finding a good wife, but in the end, his husband cheats on her?
She is still a woman so much worse than herself.
In the end, they agreed to divorce, and because her husband cheated, Bao Facai received a large sum of money.
It was also because of the divorce that she suffered a psychological breakdown, made repeated mistakes, was ostracized in the company, and later resigned.
After listening to Bao Facai’s words, Li Siyuan actually understood.
I have to say that she is indeed a very good person, but she is too strong.
In fact, many of her problems, including her job, are due to the fact that she has a rich man as her backing, so her colleagues and bosses in the company usually have to take her husband’s family into consideration.
And what people may really need is not such a strong person. To be honest, what they really need is not a person who can make money. They may just need a strong woman to come back and take care of the house and provide some spiritual comfort in front of men. encourage.
Therefore, Bao Facai’s husband, or rather his ex-husband, could not get what he wanted from Bao Facai.
Cheating has become inevitable.
Of course, the troubled ex-husband here is a big problem. If you have any issues, you can negotiate, but cheating is the last thing to do.
Unfortunately, this incident had a greater impact on Bao Facai.
Not only did she not realize that there was anything wrong with her, she attributed her failures in life to her not being strong enough.
If you were good enough and strong enough, you wouldn’t have so many problems.
So she changed her son’s name to Champion, and poured all her life regrets from childhood into adulthood into Champion Bao, hoping that Champion Bao would become even better.
She no longer has a job, and all her energy is directed toward Bao Guanjun. If she does well in the exam, she thinks she should, but if she does poorly in the exam, she scolds her with a straight face, “Whenever there is a problem, I will invest all my
money in you, you.” Do you think you should deal with me with this kind of learning attitude? I don’t put on makeup, I don’t buy nice clothes, who am I doing this for?
After knowing this, Li Siyuan felt a little heavy, because it was obvious that Bao Facai was a typical person who had an unsatisfactory life and blamed all his regrets on his children.
Typical parenting anxiety.
Li Siyuan also encountered this problem in his previous life.
So he did some research.
The best solution is to let parents recognize a reasonable relationship.
According to Martin Buber’s classification, there are two types of relationships, one is me and him, the other is me and it.
The former is an independent individual with its own thoughts and arrangements, while the latter is a tool and an instrument and cannot have its own ideas.
Although a child should be a person with his own independent thoughts, many parents treat him as such.
This leads to great pressure on the children and great disappointment on the parents.
“Hey, I don’t know, Champion Mom, do you like playing the piano?” At this time, Li Siyuan suddenly saw a piano in the room.
But it was obvious that it was a piano that had not been used for a long time.
“Hey, I used it a long time ago. Now I focus on my children, so I don’t have any time to play the piano.”
Bao Facai didn’t expect that Li Siyuan would ask this, and said a little embarrassed.
“You should play the piano more. Sometimes you and the champion can play the piano together.” Li Siyuan said the opposite.
Bao Facai was stunned for a moment.
As a teacher, don’t you want parents to control their children the better?
The more parents do, the easier it will be for teachers.
Why did he let himself play with the champion when it came to Li Siyuan?